Falling in love during summer’s days can bring humming sensation into your life. Nature around full of right stimulus can make a promise of love heat felt in the air. So before “Summer LOVE in the Air” will mix your senses, my new love, there are some things I would like to say:
I’M NOT HERE TO FIX YOU.
If you need to be fixed, or figured, or chased, I wish you all the best, but I simply cannot be involved—I don’t have the time, energy, or inclination. I am not looking for someone who is fixed, because I am still filling in my own cracks in many ways. But I need to know that you are capable, and willing, to fill in your own, without looking to me, or alcohol, or sex, or football, or outside things to fill in yours. From this place of caring deeply for ourselves, can we come together and care deeply for each other?
I NEED ALONE TIME FOR MY SOUL.
Probably about an hour every day to read, practice yoga, run, read the news, or just veg out. Some days it may be less. Some days it may be more. It doesn’t mean I don’t care about you. It doesn’t mean you’re annoying me. It simply means that in order to take care of myself, and you, and everyone else in our lives, I need time to reconnect with my inner guidance and juices. I will always give you this same consideration. If you need more, or less, don’t be afraid to ask for it—or anything else, for that matter.
I NEED TO DANCE ON THE RHYTHM OF MY BODY.
I am someone who thrives in the richness of the soil, the brightness of the dawn, the colors of the sunset, the taste of rich black coffee. I need to throw out my arms at least once every day and feel my heart sing in joyful harmony with the universe. And I need you to understand that.
LET’S FIGHT, as lovers do, TO HAVE OUR TRUTH RELEASE.
Sometimes you might hate me because I dare to speak to your face my truth. Sometimes I will annoy you so much you will want to claw out your own eardrums just to quiet the sound of my voice. Believe or not, I’ll do the same, because my temper is like a dragonfly, buzzing around. With a short fly but focused landing. And, all will pass, if we accept each other…and remember LOVE and ACEPPTANCE is only the right answer.
WE WILL DRIVE EACH OTHER NUTS.
LET’S BE ON THE SAME SIDE – OURS.
I want to feel amazed. I want to look at you every day, at least once, and wonder at how this perfectly imperfect life came to be.
I WANT YOU ENJOY CO – LIVING
Let me make banana/ strawberry shake for you, without a recipe, because I cannot find it. Then I will write, and practice yoga, and you will work on your computer. We will be quiet, but content. Later, we will walk downtown, and have a drink, and talk about path to happiness we are creating. Or, maybe we will sit quietly, because we can be quiet. We will walk home, touching hands occasionally. Because I feel right to be free but having you nearby, for all cases, if I trip over, you’ll catch me in my descent moves. We will make love slowly but passionately, full of heat born of two people who cannot get enough of life, or each other.
LET US BE like “SILLY GOOSES” FLYING AROUND.
Let’s explore the world, and each other, and the backyard. Let’s make memories from love and curiosity that you and I might be? Of what, I’m not sure yet. It’s taken me a long time to get to this place, and I’m still not sure ready to find out.
The post was inspired by an article of Kristin Diversi
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