THE QUEEN represents power and authority in all women. Not every woman is able to stretch and push herself so hard to become the one; it takes power, a deep work and diplomacy. Recently I have heard the story that I am about to share with you in which  our Queen Archetype is woven all over. Enjoy reading about self-worth in building our relationship with all archetypes of personalities around.

In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question:

‘What a kind of man are you looking for?’

She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye & asking,

‘Do you really want to know?’ Reluctantly, he said, ‘Yes.’

She began to expound, ‘As a woman in this day and my age, I am in a position to ask a man a question:

What Can You Do For Me That I Can’t Do For Myself?

  •   I pay my own bills.
  •  I educated myself in life and schools.
  •  I know how to take care of my household without the help of others.
  •  I know how to dream and how to turn my dreams into reality.
  • Now,  I am in the position to ask,

What Can You Bring To The Table?’

The man looked at her. Clearly, he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought stating, ‘I am not referring to money.

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I need something more than JUST MONEY…..

I need a man who is striving for EXCELLENCE in every aspect of life.

I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don’t need a simple-minded man!

 I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually – because I don’t need to be unequally yoked…believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster.

I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don’t need a financial burden. I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman but strong enough to keep me grounded.

 I need someone who has integrity in dealing with RELATIONSHIPS. Lies and game-playing are not my ideas of a strong man. I need a man who is FAMILY- ORIENTED.

One who can be a LEADER, PRIEST and PROVIDER to the lives entrusted to him by God. I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn’t taking care of his business.

I have no problem being submissive…he just has to be WORTHY. By the way, I am not looking for him…



He may not be able to explain the CONNECTION but he will always be drawn to me. God made a woman to be a Help-Mate for man. I can’t help a man if he CAN’T help himself. When she finished her spill, she looked at him.

He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, ‘You are asking a lot. She replied, “I’M WORTH A LOT”.

Do you know your worth?

Share this! Send this to every woman who’s worth a lot…. and every man who has the brains to understand!


Veronika Prielozna, MA in building her inner Queenwood

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