Is Fear Keeping You Single?
There’s another reason a lot of women get stuck on the road to an amazing relationship, and it has to do with a fear of being single or alone. See if you can relate to some of the ways women try to avoid feeling this:
Dating unavailable men: Lots of women who are afraid of being alone end up picking the same kind of men over and over who just don’t “get it” and don’t show up emotionally in relationships.
Accepting unacceptable behavior from men: If you’re afraid of being alone, you’re likely to put up with behavior you aren’t comfortable with just for the sake of being in a relationship.
Holding onto exes: I meet a lot of women who are still pining over an old love, even when they readily admit that the relationship wasn’t a good fit. This keeps them stuck in the past so that they don’t have to face what’s happening right now.
Moving Away From The Past And Toward Love
If you recognize yourself in the scenarios above, you’re not alone. But the great news is that the only thing standing in the way of the love you want is you. And, as I said before, you have complete power to change that.
Let me ask you:
What’s going to happen next time you’re in front of an amazing, single, attractive man and he wants to get close to you? When he shows you that he truly wants to be close and wants to see all of who you are, what is he going to see?
Is he going to see the confident and radiant woman who has nothing getting in the way of her freely and openly giving her love and exploring the connection to see where the adventure could lead?
Or is he going to see a woman who holds back, who worries at every turn, who isn’t sure if she can let a man in?
The real question is…
Which woman do you think a man will truly fall in love with? Which woman will a man tell all his friends about and begin the process of committing himself and his love to?
And which woman will a man feel like something is “off” with, and experience all kinds of disconnection and complication that he might not understand or know how to deal with?
Are You The Woman The Man You Want Is Looking For?
The truth is that a great guy who’s single, conscious and mature also wants a woman who is open, evolved and truly ready to give and receive love. So if a man senses that a woman has walls or patterns that keep her in fear and cause HER to disconnect, odds are he’s not going to end up falling in love and becoming emotionally connected and committed.
The best time to figure out how to be in the right place inside and become the great lover and partner you know you can be is NOT when you’re in the relationship and presented with all the issues and fears form your past.
The time to do that is NOW for yourself, so that when you’re in front of the right man you are clear to allow love to flow between you both. (This kind of free-flowing love is INTENSELY ATTRACTIVE to a man. Actually, it’s IRRESISTIBLE).
Become irresistible intensively attractive woman for your dream man, now you know how…..enjoy your transformation jounrey!
Reference: Christian Carter